How does one succeed in life?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Hangs out with loser friends.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Why are Americans obese? Is it the food or is it the psychology?

What I need from you?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

That's it for today.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

I am 26 now. I have wasted my 4 years of my life on government job preparation. I had put all my effort to get a job, but did not succeed. What should I do now?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Does not procrastinate.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Why would calling me an incel help anything? How does that solve anything? Why can’t you actually be helpful and offer productive honest advice?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Procrastinates a lot.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Ask yourself:

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.